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Know what? Even if NO other woman besides you in all of human history (which you and I know isn't anything remotely close to the truth) needed or wanted other sexual activities before intercourse, the fact that YOU do should be all a partner needs to know. With someone who is being a good partner...

If what you are having is, in fact, an allergic reaction, then you can treat it like any other allergy. You can take a general allergy medication, like a Benadryl tablet. In terms of your genital symptoms and soothing them fast, I'd suggest a cool, bubble-less bath. You might try adding oatmeal to...

The size of someone's body in terms of height and weight really doesn't have any bearing on genital size. If you have the idea that a very small woman has a much smaller vagina than a very large woman, time to toss that idea out, since there's never been any data to support that premise. When it...

This is actually a good thing! In general, the vagina is supposed to be a pretty wet environment. Even when a person with a vagina is not sexually aroused, they'll have cervical mucus and other vaginal discharge. It may be helpful to think about it as being somewhat similar to the inside of your...

Vaginal dryness can have lots of different causes. Especially if you're having dryness all the time (even when you're not aroused or sexually active as well), you'll want to first check out the other things going on in your life and see if there's a cause there. Some medications and certain...

Vaginal dryness can be one of the more common side effects of hormonal birth control methods (like the pill). Vaginal discharge and the lubrication that's produced during arousal are influenced by what's going on with our hormones (to at least some extent). When you're using a hormonal method of...

You know, KY is really one of the lower quality lubricants out there. If you're using the jelly, it really isn't going to help much, but even their liquid lubes aren't as good as a lot of others in my opinion. An excellent lubricant is not only as good as "natural" lubricant, sometimes it's even...

If you shaved your vulva very recently before sex, then I'd say the chances are that yes: that's the reason for the irritation. That skin is pretty delicate, and all the more so when it's been irritated by something, and shaving certainly does that. Add a bunch of friction and body heat to an...

Assuming that it's definitely not menstrual blood, whenever a person with a vagina bleeds after sex, it's generally the result of an injury. Sometimes if there's blood spotting and pain after sex, it's because there's an infection in the cervix like trichomoniasis, chlamydia or gonorrhea. Irritation...

Anal sex, or ANY type of sex for that matter, isn't going to be the "bee's knees" for everybody. Even if one sexual activity feels good, that's no guarantee that every type of sex is going to feel good either. It may just be that anal sex is not really your thing, and that's okay. Not everybody...