(Anonymous' question continued) I feel like there is something so strange about a person like me who is so reserved- celibate of all sexual activity, and yet, I don't really have erotic dreams, and it doesn't SEEM like I'm repressing anything. I will say that I am EXTREMELY creative and passionate...
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- Heather Corinna
If you feel like -- and you seem to be very clearly saying you do -- that YOU need to hold off on sex with someone new, for YOU, that's really all you need to know. You're the only person waiting needs to be okay with. If it's not okay with anyone else, too bad for them. Some not-as-yet boyfriend...
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- Heather Corinna
What we are talking about here is celibacy, the deliberate choice not to have a sexual partner for any period of time. There's nothing ambiguous about that. Being celibate entails sharing NO sexual acts with a partner: any kind of intercourse (vaginal or anal), oral sex, manual sex, and so forth. In other words, no physical, sexual contact with others; meaning any genital (penis or vulva) touch, with mouths, hands or anything else between you and someone else is off limits.
