open relationships

Dynamics like mine require a lot of honesty, and often speaking honestly can make you feel vulnerable, but showing vulnerability to a partner is a good way to build trust and intimacy. At the same time, you learn a lot about yourself as you're forced to ask yourself tough questions and to think carefully about what you want from a relationship and why - in turn, this makes you appreciate the reasons you want to be with your partner(s), and what it is about being with them that makes you happy.

Every relationship is different, and when you’re polyamorous, that means that you may have several different relationships going on all at once. One issue to think about is the relationship structure that works for you, and how to make it work with your partners. Remember that this can be in a constant state of evolution, but communication is necessary for changes to take place.

(Mostly) everything (okay, okay, not mostly everything, but a lot) you wanted to know about polyamory.

Your issues of sexual satisfaction and your issues of considering opening up your relationship when it comes to dating others strike me as two different issues. We're rarely going to meet a new partner who just lucks into knowing exactly what to do for sex to be satisfying for us. In fact, it's much...

You seem to be asking two separate questions here: 1) If it's okay to have an open relationship now, and 2) If it's a wise idea to sleep with someone who dumped you because you wouldn't sleep with them. Let's hit #2 first, since it's pretty easy. For real? For real you want to sleep with someone who...