Sex & Disability

Sex with disability -- whether it's you or a partner who's disabled or neurodiverse -- doesn't usually have to mean sex that's harder or more challenging, it usually just means we have to bring out or grow our listening, self-advocacy, and adaptation skills, things that always make sex better, disabled or not.

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  • Robin Mandell

You're welcome! What you're asking about here is something a lot of people experience and wonder about whether they have a disability or not. Even if these kinds of uncertainties about our sexualities weren't pretty common, even if what you're talking about was unique to you and a few other people...

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  • Heather Corinna

I asked my hands-down favorite writer about sex and disability, Cory Silverberg, to answer this one for you. Here's what Cory had to say: It already sounds like you have a good sense of what's happening with your body since the spinal cord injury and one of the great things about having incredible...

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  • Heather Corinna

Being inclusive of disabled people in sex education and sexuality as a whole benefits those of us who are disabled and is something we strongly need. But it also can benefit everybody, in ways you might not expect.

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  • Stephanie

You know people really are all very different, and usually when we try to compare one partner with those of our past we miss the mark by a long shot because of those differences. So lets break your question down into a few different parts and take things one at a time. Let’s take the big question...

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  • Heather Corinna

Really, truly, the longer we're in relationships, the more we're going to go through times when for one partner or the other -- sometimes both -- libidos are low or sex just isn't a high priority. That's okay. To expect our sex lives as time goes on to resemble how they were when we were brand new...

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  • Heather Corinna

Of all the antidepressants around, Zoloft is actually most often linked to sexual side effects, and inability to reach orgasm, ejaculate with orgasm, erectile dysfunction and impaired libido (sexual drive) are common effects of Zoloft (and other SSRIs). So, since that is a very likely possibility...

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  • Clare Sainsbury

There is really only one thing that you need to know about sex and disability: Disabled people have sex, too.